i had a chat with a couple of my close friends today.
the general agreement was that there is nothing wrong with wanting your own bed since my sister can already afford to buy a bed of her own.
problem now is the execution of getting a bed because it will involve :-
1. the clearing of my sister’s belongings
2. wirings since we only have one main socket in the room
3. major shift of furniture
and it will not happen immediately because all #3 takes time.
we all have to sacrifice something to get what we want.
in my sister’s context, it will be time.
too tired to think any further.